Who's House for the Holidays?

Do you have this debate / argument with your significant others, "who's house we should go to for the holidays?" I really don't think anyone wins in this situation. Reason being, if you go to their house, deep inside you really want to be with your family, and the same would go for them if they came to your family's house. I always try to come up with a solution where no one gets hurt or offended but I truly believe in this situation there is no easy answer. I've been trying to find one, but I think I'm on a pointless hunt.

Any suggestions?